Hannibal has been straight up murdered by people three times. He gets away with it because he doesn't let it affect him. You can't sit the guy down and force him to acknowledge your pain. His brain doesn't work like that.

You're basically screaming at a wall, with him. One day maybe, he'll have this great epiphany over how horrible the shit he's done is. But that's probably a long way off and it might not ever come.

You're going to spend all this time trying to break him because he deserves it but you're just going to end up hurting yourself and he'll walk away clean. You can't screw with this guy. He's not built for it.